What not to say to a parent who has lost a child (Yes people have said these things to me)!

1. He or She is in a better place

2. God don't make mistakes

3. At least you had him or her for "insert years"

4. At least he or she had a child some people lost their kids and don't have grandchildren

5. I need you to put your grieving to the side and be a better friend to me

6. You will see them again in heaven

7. You should visit your child's gravesite it may make you feel better

8. You should stay off social media

9 . You should throw him or her a birthday party each year

10. Just Pray and you will be ok